Voice your opinion: the most annoying questions to expats

You have read lots of funny, sad, happy and annoying stories about my expat life. But I know that there are many of you out there, reading my blog precisely because you are expats yourself, living in Lithuania, having lived here or in any of the other relevant countries. So, this time I want you to actively contribute to a debate: what are the most annoying questions you constantly hear when living in a foreign country?

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Safety, Vilnius style

A situation I got into two days ago sounds like a funny adventure, but in fact there could have been a real danger involved. It tells a lot about the attitudes towards safety of staff and clients even in such a prestigious place like I was in.

I started attending a course at a known language school, Kalba.lt, which is based in the Vilnius Business Harbour (Vilniaus verslo uostas) - a relatively newly-built, hyper-modern steel-and-glass building, which hosts many successful companies (perhaps some not so successful ones too). After the class on the 4th floor, where the language school is, I went into an elevator together with five more people. As we got on, the elevator unexpectedly started ascending. We laughed - there must have been a mistake. The elevator stopped at the 6th floor, then went down to the 2nd, and up again... Now it started feeling like a bad horror movie.

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Holocaust day in Lithuania

There is a lot and at the same time nothing I could say. What I wanted to say to Lithuanians, I already wrote in my Lithuanian blog. It is a day full of silence and emptiness, unfortunately. Just felt like paying a silent tribute.

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Legal graffiti: inclusive urban art or "farted radicalism"?

Better late than never. On the 9th of September I attended a street art event, co-organised by Julijus G., whom I know. There is a group of people who promote graffiti in Lithuania as a legal form of urban art, which engages the people who hang out in the spaces decorated. The even coincided with other phenomena related to graffiti - I will write about those later. As expected, it provoked all kinds of reactions.

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Twitter account

Now you can follow me on Twitter for fast and short updates! http://twitter.com/daiva_hadiva

My account is also RSSed to this blog.

Strangling the European dream: Sarkozy, Roma and collective punishment

"They came first for the Communists, and I didn't speak up because I wasn't a Communist.
Then they came for the trade unionists, and I didn't speak up because I wasn't a trade unionist.
Then they came for the Jews, and I didn't speak up because I wasn't a Jew.
Then they came for me and by that time no one was left to speak up."
             Pastor Martin Niemöller (1892–1984)

Last month the European Union was shook up by expulsions of the Roma from France, shedding light on equally or even more criminal actions in Italy (at a local level though) and invoking such concepts as 'crime', 'stigmatisation', 'security', 'rights' - as always. Before we notice, 'big politics' is facing realignments and populations in Europe are fed with daily portions of fear and distrust. Sarkozy, a former minister of interior, is doing his best to perform his brutal acts wearing white gloves: the way he and his followers present the issue is almost flawlessly politically correct and taps into the fears that lurk in many Europeans, while other powers than the extreme right fail to address those. But as we discuss, people are being sent away, and the European dream, embodied in the fundamental treaties of the EU, is convulsing in its agony, abandoned.

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New schoolyear in spotlight

This is going to be a melancholic post. After all, what else if not melancholy, sweet and ripe with memories or sad and heavy, is one supposed to feel, marking the third September the 1st as an ordinary workday? No feeling of celebration anymore, and seeing kids with sword-lilies on the way to school, makes you feel somewhat nostalgic (even if you would rather spend a day in hell than a day back in middle school). This day changes Vilnius, and does so in various ways.

But beware: I'm only paying a tribute to this day today. The next post is going to be angry. Beware.

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Colourful Japanese devils in Vilnius streets

"What's this? What's this?" curiously repeat an elderly French-speaking couple to each other as they pass by a colourful crowd of all kinds of characters, some holding swords about the size of themselves, some with blue hair or painted faces. It is the fourth time Cosplay enthusiasts get together in Vilnius and show how they can imitate their favourite characters, but lately (at least since 2009) the Japanese embassy happily supports their show(-off) in the framework of a festival called "Now Japan". In addition to crafts workshops and a movie night, Cosplay was one of the parts of the festival. However, the city, waking up from the summer vacation, felt it more than anything else.

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Religious space, gender, strange encounters

Too many stories boiling in my head, will catch up shortly, after the period of huge workload is over. However, one story I got into was kind of interesting, and hopefully you, dear readers, will enjoy it.

The other day I met a tourist who is staying in Vilnius for a few weeks, attending a summer school. We soon found out that we were both studying Hebrew at some point, and I said I really missed speaking that language. Therefore we soon agreed to meet and chat in Hebrew another day. Tired after a busy working day and prepared for a casual chat, I set of to meet him. But his idea was very unusual: "Do you mind keeping me company to go to the synagogue?" he asked. Apparently, the person is a second year convert-in-progress to Judaism. "Well, umm... My skirt is kinda short for that..." I said, not quite excited. However, assured that nobody will pay attention, I finally gave in and got to see this space on a weekday, regular evening, during a prayer that struggles to continue in the city which used to be called the Jerusalem of Lithuania.

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Shocking news from South Israel + reflections on Lithuania

Just read this. I have not found the words to comment it. I visited an unrecognised (I won't spell 'illegal') village in Ramleh. The families that live there were expelled from their original villages after the Independence of Israel was announced and in a period of rather lawless situation many Arab residents were forced to leave their homes. Many of them did not stay in Israel at all. Those ones did. They, along with Israeli activists helping them, have estimated that demolition of a house costs about 20,000 NIS - for this you could upgrade sewage and water supply to the village. Now the village lacks basic amenities and feels increasingly hopeless: as many times as they tried to apply for recognition, the municipality was deaf and blind. Meanwhile, a new Jewish moshav nearby got all the rights and all the amenities immediately. The villagers went to negotiate with the new members, but those reported they just got what they wanted from the government, and perhaps would not want to compromise their situation. The only positive thing is that Israel has a very progressive law: all children are entitled to school education, regardless of the status of their parents. The children of Dahmash (the unrecognised village) go to schools in towns and villages nearby, potentially enabling them to (a) claim their rights better, as they will be literate and educated to communicate with the authorities in the future, (b) access the labour market outside the village (although I cannot imagine how is one supposed to send a CV to a respectable company with the address in this unrecognised village on it). In this respect these children are better off than Roma children in unrecognised settlements in/near European cities - many of them are not in school.

Well, I guess I won't describe the  situation any better than my dear friend, Yuval Ben-Ami, already has.

There is never one side to a story. State authorities are under multiple pressures. At least in Lithuania, illegal housing is a big issue. The Roma settlement in Kirtimai, Vilnius, is in heavy debt to the municipality, for which some basic amenities are periodically disconnected. Many children do not go to school, and crime is thriving (this is the biggest drug hub). Not all inhabitants are willing to move to social housing offered to them, as they prefer to live in the community they feel comfortable with rather than have their family dispersed. When they try to move in together with all their family members they are used to have around, non-Roma neighbours complain. 49% ethnic Lithuanians surveyed (as of 2009) reported they would not like to have Roma neighbours, and 38% would not like to work together with Roma. For those who read Lithuanian, this is an article I wrote after visiting Dahmash, drawing a parallel with the Roma settlement in Vilnius (to which, I must admit, I have not been).

However, a parallel problem with illegal housing in Lithuania is local mafiozi, nouveau-riche and politicians building or expanding their houses illegally in protected heritage areas, blocking roads so that only themselves and their guests can use those, stealing land from parks and forests to make their property more attractive, and so on. The media reports such cases regularly, but it is very difficult to do something against those in power. You may not see anything in common between impoverished Roma, who have lived in that neighbourhood historically (and some rich Roma living there, too, as they have attractive business options there) and rich individuals building houses on national parks and other protected areas, such as the Curonian Spit. However, predictably, as soon as the state makes a legal exemption in its laws, the powerful will be the ones to capitalise on that. I think both states, together with the respective communities, should look for some other grounds to legalise the settlements on ad-hoc basis. And I say 'legalise', not evict these people and patronisingly move them into social housing.

Bubbling out Vilnius. Because it needs it

There is one urban initiative that I have not witnessed yet. Every second Monday people gather in public spaces to "pack the wind" - using some equipment, produce huge bubbles. This is something children and adults enjoy equally. Something that looks very primitive but provides lots of joy. The initiative was started by the Laimikis.lt blog and has already spread to multiple cities.

In summer, this city really needs something to get it going. There are more and more outdoor cafes in this exceptionally hot summer, and people of various ages do hit the town at night. But with many students out (working abroad or relaxing in their home towns) and many others unemployed, hence without financial means to enjoy sometimes inadequately expensive night life, bars and cafes are not exactly for "reaching out". I mean, people go there to spend time with those they already know rather than meet new people. During the bubbling game, you don't have to talk to others, but you can see it clearly in the photos - there is some special solidarity and collective fun. I can't wait to join them next Monday.

By the way, Laimikis.lt once published something by me.

Lithuania goes tropical

Come to Lithuania if you doubt climate change. When I went there for winter vacations, I was greeted with a very polite "Ladies and gentlemen, the plane is landing above Vilnius. The temperature in Vilnius is -22 degrees Celsius. Have a nice stay..." In spring I heard of horrible floods, although not so destructive as in Poland or Hungary. Right before I came here in summer, my friends were complaining about unprecedented mosquito attack and more annoying then ever pollen in Vilnius. Eventually, summer came with rains, thunderstorms and barely survivable heat above 30 degrees, which is very unusual. How do people cope with it?

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Nightlife in Lithuania: call it night, but life???

When you go out in Lithuania in summer, prepare to dance in plenty of space and give yourself a moment to carefully pick your shoes! Adequate shoes may be key to a good party.

I know all too well that after returning from Tel Aviv, where everything is open all night long and summer stands for more clubbing and better roof parties, any Northern European country might seem a little gloomy. However, as unprejudiced as can be (after all, I'm returning to my home country, my usual one) and open for new experiences, I set out to see some nightlife in Vilnius and Kaunas through the eyes of a tourist with my friend I. His visit was a good chance to see things anew, and use the opportunity to enjoy the shortest nights of the year exploring my hometown, Kaunas, and my current city of residence, Vilnius.

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Old Vilnius anew

I miss the predictability of Tel Aviv weather as the skies of my native country vomit a chilly rainfall onto my head. Because of this, I'm about to skip the only festival which makes me shout, "Yeah, I do love being in Vilnius!" I mean, the Let It Be Night festival, when many cultural venues are open at night and many events are free. Many of them are inside, but you can't feel the greatness of this event without moving around the space, so alive with people, lights and joy. You can't have it all if you walk around cursing the ugliness of the weather, which is tropical except that it's cold. As you may predict, if your mood is already bad enough, or if you think you have much better things to do than read a bitter blog post, you can close it now.

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Lithuania OKs torture of suspect by Russian security forces?

20 years ago Lithuania declared its independence from the USSR, before anyone knew it will break apart very soon. In the eyes of the world, Lithuania's name stood for courage, as well as struggle for individual and collective rights against the omnipotent bureaucratic empire with ubiquitous security and intelligence systems. The last Soviet troops left the country in 1993. I watched them leave from a bridge above a railroad with my father and brother. A hand from a window of the last car waved a Soviet flag. "See, they want to tell us they'll be back," my father said then. Two decades later, KGB's inheritors are coming through the back door: a Lithuanian citizen, suspected of participating in organising a terrorist attack, was allegedly tortured by Russian officers.

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Visszontlatasra Tel Aviv, and shalom Budapest

So, just as you know, I continue to move around. Greetings from Budapest this time! One week in advance I was already worried: I'll be travelling with lots of things, including books, notes in a rare language, and so on. I had heard legends of Israeli border controls, and experienced some of the hell they often give to tourists myself as I was going to Lithuania for holiday.

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Akropolis wants the govt to pay for own miscalculations?

The notorious Maxima Group (or officially VP Group) strikes again. You already know that it secretly kept selling dishes proved to emit poisonous materials (this was discovered by my colleague Džina Donauskaitė), turned the former Central Station of Alytus into a slum, was supposed to become the key private investor in the new power plant to be built (in case of any disagreement, the govt would have deposited all its property except embassies abroad), and allegedly forced its employees to participate in an environmental action day. Not all the accusations may be as severe as they seemed in the beginning, but it is indeed very difficult to check them, and so far I have not received any information that would make me think otherwise. Anyway, here comes the latest news: Akropolis, the chain of huge shopping malls belonging to the VP Group (one of the malls was built in the centre of Kaunas under dubious circumstances, and is a classical example of urban mis-planning), is suing the state for the loss of money it invested into land it bought before the crisis. During the crisis, which hit Lithuania in 2008, real estate prices plummeted and many people and businesses experienced losses. The most severely affected were young people who took mortgage loans for their accommodation, as their salaries were reduced, yet interest remained high, and the option of selling the apartment to pay off the debt became not an option anymore.

There is no denying that the government is partly to blame for the severity of the crisis. The previous Social-Democratic government 'overslept' and totally mishandled it. The new Conservative-Liberal government introduced austerity measures that badly hit domestic consumption. However, the crisis is practically force majeur, and one should not demand taxpayers' money for one's own miscalculated investment. But of course big business always finds its way.

Update 17 June

The court has just ruled that the conglomerate won't have to pay the remaining amount to the state, because the market value of their purchase has decreased. Of course, nobody cares whose else property's market value decreased due to the crisis. The court explains that the Lithuanian state won't suffer too much, because it will benefit from the development of infrastructure around the mall. I wouldn't claim that infrastructure in that area was underdeveloped. It is close to a very popular park, which also has a concert hall inside, and almost next to the centre. Why would they build a shopping mall there in the first place?

No peace for Abraham to rest

The ancient town of Hebron (West Bank) once looked very promising. Its ancient Jewish community, more or less continuously living in the city, which claims to host the tomb of Abraham (considered both the first Jew and the first Muslim in history), had many things to share with its Arab neighbors. For example, this prayer house, built by Herod, used to serve both.

However, when conflict arrives to previously tightly connected communities, it has more painful consequences. The consequences of the conflict are visible with a naked eye.

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The first Gay Pride: what about this metaphorical glass?

The most loyal readers of my blog must have been wondering, why was I silent about the first demonstration for the rights of homosexuals, bisexuals and transgender people in Lithuania. In fact it has nothing to do with the Baltic Pride itself, only with the end of the academic year. Well, here it is, I'll try to give you as much information as possible. The most important thing is, obviously, the fact that after so many obstacles the Baltic Pride happened, and, although I did not see it with my own eyes, it seems to have been a beautiful one.

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If land could move: what would move European countries?

"The Economist" had this funky mental exercise: imagine that countries could be relocated on the map. Don't read the article yet, first look at the map. I'll repost it for you in case the article becomes subscribers-only in the future:

Source: Economist

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